So got talking to this guy online weeks back. He seemed nice, funny etc but would never initiate a "meet" of any kind. He did however become obsessed with the idea of coming to my house with wine and cooking which I felt totally innapropriate as a first date. So anyway I didn't agree to that. We chatted on facebook now and again and text but eventually it all dried up and I didn't hear from him for two weeks.
Anyway last saturday night he sent me another message on facebook and to cut long story short, said he was still really interested and just didn't push things as he got the impression that I wasnt interested. So we arranged to meet this saturday coming. He said it was completely up to me what we did so I suggested a few drinks and if all goes well, cinema to see a film we both wanted to see. He seemed ok with that, not overly excited but "ok". So we've sent the odd text/facebook message since but no full on conversations. Today he text me asking what I'm doing Friday night as he is housesitting for his sister and would like to cook me a meal. Again with the wine/cooking scenario!
It's really not a bright "first date" idea is it? what if we don't like each other!! plus he's willing to invite someone he doesn't even know to his sisters house? Worse case scenario, what if he attacks me??
Anyway I KNOW he is who he says he is. Trust me on that one.
But - this whole "cooking" thing - he's just after a shag isn't he?
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This guy is just after a shag isn't he?
Quichy · 15/02/2012 17:46
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