Hi everyone!
Odd thing to post about maybe, but i've been on here a lot recently and just feel like i'd like to get it out of my system.
It had been so long that I was starting to forget my sexuality. I started to think that I must just have a low sex drive. The thing is though, i've always had a really high sex drive so I guess it's that old saying, use it or lose it.
Me and dp are still having our difficulites, but I genuinely really wanted him last night and it was sooooooooo sexy. I felt like a sex kitten again and although i'm only 27, I have to say I haven't felt like that since I was about 19 or 20.
I'm not just coming on here being smug, I know a lot of you have posted on here about trouble with your sex lives and I have to confess, i've been one of them, but sometimes you just have to do it. Try and remember what you used to feel for him or her. I've been thinking about him all day and it feels really weird actually. It probably shouldn't, but it does. Exciting too though.
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Finally!! Me and dp had sex again for the first time in 3 months!!
detoxneedednow · 20/01/2012 12:58
May I be the first to congratulate you! Im 27 aswell and have been with my dh for 5years, had are ups and downs but genrally ok. Unfortunately at the start of are relationship I had alot of problems with sex and after beening together of about a year we didn't have sex for nearly a whole year. It was hard getting back into it! 
But after alot of help to work through things, I was left thinking "what was I fussing about? Ive missed out!" I compeletly agree with your advice, just do it! x
Hi tech!
I'm glad you understand where i'm coming from. There was a point to my message, I wasn't just coming on here to brag(perhaps a little)
and I was genuinely worried that that's what people would think when I read back my post. Seriously though, i'm like a woman posessed today! I mean, I "just did it" loads of times in the past, but I kind of zoned out I think and forgot that it could be such a great thing! Something clicked and I feel sexier than ever. The only problem is, i'm bloody exhausted today
That's what happens when enthusiasm comes back into the bedroom
You better be swinging off the chandelier tonight detox or i'll be telling you off!
I don't think dp was disappointed, put it that way.
I think he's wondering what's happened to me. He's obviously not complaining, but I think he thinks i've had some kind of sex hormone injection! I don't know why he's so suspicious, when we were first together, I was exactly the same.
The only problem is, i've got a op this week and I can't have sex for 4-6 weeks!!
Bloody typical! I start to get it back and then i'm not allowed to do it. Poor dp!
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