I've posted previously about my problems with mum. Main thread here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1353614-Toxic-bitch-of-a-mother-says-shes-not-setting-foot-in-my-house-again
Ive seen my mum twice since this happened, the first time we met for coffee and dd was there and refused to look or speak to my mum at first. Mum repeatedly asked dd why she was ignoring her and I had to explain that dd was still upset about what had happened. Mum said she was being ridiculous. I think I managed to drag a few words out of dd in the end.
Then I saw mum again at her house on my own.
Told dd earlier that I want us both to go round tomorrow and see her. Dd says there is no way she's going. She started crying and said that grandma had upset her too much and that she's a mad old biddy and she never wants to see her again.
Do I force her to come or accept she has a point and tell my mum that these are the consequences to her actions. Mum still thinks she did nothing wrong btw.
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10yo dd is now refusing to see my mother
VivaLeBeaver · 17/12/2011 23:10
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