She's such a crap mother, I don't know why I bother with her. Long history of her being a crap mum, eg buying me big bottles of vodka to take to the park while I was 14 and not caring if I didnt make it home those nights. She never encouraged me to do well in school. She didnt care about spending time with me as a child so spent most of my childhood doing everything for myself, luckily I had an excellent Grandma and a woman of no relation who took it upon herself to help bring me up. I cant even go in to all the details of what she was like as it hurts to look back on.
I was forced to move out at 16 and moved in with my sister, my mum didnt give a fuck and acted as if everything was normal. She gave my sister no money to help towards food and bills etc while my sister was a single mum on a low paid job and my mum was still recieving matenance (sp?) and benefits for me.
She ALWAYS tells lies, nothing that comes out of her mouth is the truth. She's an alcoholic and she doesn't even care that she's pushed her 2 daughters so far out of her life because of this.
Me and my sister both moved away from where she lives, I am only an hour away on the bus yet she only makes the effort to come see me probably about 3 times a year, the rest of the time I have to get the bus down to her with a very active toddler. She didnt come to see me for 2 months after DS was born :(
She's made no effort to be a "proper" mum and now constantly guilt trips me for leaving her to live alone in a big house and moans about how far away I live. I mean what did she want me to do, stay with her all my life, watching her drink her life away and play constant mind games with me? I had to grow up and move on for the good of my mental health!
I hate her. I have tried so hard this past year to try and form a relationship with her but it's all one sided. She doesn't care about my life she just wants to talk about herself alllllll the time, and now to top it all off, she forgets its my fucking birthday!! The anniversary of the day I popped out her vagina and she can't even remember it, or what age I am, or even get a present! I don't want much, just to know that she cares and she put thought into something.
I want to cut her out my life but every time I do I feel bad and guilty cos she's my mum and you shouldn't feel like that about your mum.
I hate her I hate her I hate her!!!!
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HairyNigel · 17/12/2011 13:32
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