I think that Dh has some PA traits and it has been driving me mad. I have told him that complaining just makes everyone miserable. He does it a lot. He sulks for Britain when the mood takes him and moans that he has no friends. I don't like being blamed for things that go wrong, and I don't like the dogs being shouted at for things we can do something about. It is as though instead of acting to make something better is not an option. It is better to leave it and shout and complain.
I have mentioned to him that I think there are things that would help him to feel happier, and that his general gloom seems to point in the general way of PA. Nice, aren't I. I guess I am wondering how other people cope with partners who sulk a lot?
I only found out recently through talking to my therapist and someone else, that this could be a problem. If it is, what success have people had in dealing with it? It is horrible, and I get pretty angry about it.
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silentcatastrophe · 14/12/2011 11:36
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