I work with 7 women and 1 man. I sometimes have a sandwich with one of the women and the man and we'd arranged to do this on my birthday. We don't socialise or anything outside work. However, the man couldn't make it. When I went into work, I found a chocolate birthday cake on my desk in a carrier bag with a note saying "sorry I couldn't make it". No, this man never usually remembers anybody's birthday or buys anything for anybody. I didn't feel that I could say to the rest of the department who had bought it so said it was from me. I probably know the answer to this already, but do you think it is normal for a married male colleague to do this. Would your husbands buy their female colleagues a cake or is he just being friendly?
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