I am very confused. Despite me asking for a separation my DH is being really nice to me. I asked formthe seperation as I had the lightbulb moment during his rant and character assassination to me a few days ago. Weirdly we are talking about finances, me buying another house. How the separation would work.
I don't know but he seems ambivalent about it all. I don't want him to scream and shout and ask for another chance but I feel confused. When he is this nice I wonder why I asked for it?
I asked how he feels and he says he still loves me but doesn't want the marriage to continue the way it is. And hes not really sure how he feels.
I said about me living apart and how does he feel and he said' well I would like some one for the sex!'
I was fuming! But apparently he didn't mean it that way. I think he sees me moving out as just that but our marriage will continue at his convenience. I.e sex.
I have heard of married couples living apart but together? Could that really work? We have 2 DC 4 and 6 and I hate doing this to them too.
I still love him but hate how he treats me sometimes. REALLY CONFUSED!!!
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Asked for separation...DH being so nice to me?
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LadyEatsCrispsALot · 30/11/2011 23:05
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