I have name changed but I promise you I am not a troll! A few weeks ago DH joined a gym. Shortly afterwards he asked me to remove his back hair as it was embarrassing in the pool. I obliged because I thought the epilator would be hilariously painful, although I made it clear that I loved his body the way it is.
He then started talking about how he wanted to remove all his body hair as it makes him feel dirty and he felt that he would be happier if he was completely hairless. I got v upset, as I have always had a bit of a thing for hairy men and had no issue with his back hair or any other.
He said that as we don't have sex often enough that my opinion on his body didn't really count and that if it made him happy I should support him. I said it made me feel sick that he wanted to do it and that I wouldn't ever be able to go near him, that it would be the end of our physical relationship.
He didn't do it, but now I know that's how he feels I can't look at him in the same way. I have lost respect for him and find him sexually repulsive. Please help me!
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DH body hair removal obsession
TheEpilator · 15/11/2011 10:12
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