DP and I will be getting married soon. The problem is that his father hates me, he hasn't spoken to me in over 5 years, won't look at me, calls me nasty names and is generally quite a controlling nasty man.
I spoke to DP the other night about the wedding and he was insistent that he wanted his father to come (I obviously don't want him there). My family all dislike him for the way that he has treated me (I was only a teenager when it started) and I think it would cause an awful atmosphere on the day.
I don't know what to do, I can't tell DP that his own father can't attend but I don't feel comfortable with him being invited (we are not even sure if he would definitely attend because he has that much of a problem with me).
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Glittermoo · 14/11/2011 14:47
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