Freedom!!

[dustystarry]

I cut off my wedding ring today. Ive tried to remove it a few times in the last 3 weeks since I found out about H's infidelity but Ive put on too much weight. I was going to wait until I had lost weight but decided I couldnt so I now have a sore finger and a ruined ring. The ring means nothing though as all the promises he made me when he put it on my finger he has broken in the last two years!

[noseinbook]

Good for you!

I have never had a ring, felt obliged to explain this to my divorce solicitor, as she is used to her female clients having removed theirs - though don't know why I felt obliged.

Scrap value of ring??

[dustystarry]

minuscule. We were skint when we got married. I just want him to take it with him when he takes the rest of his stuff. Its daft but it feels important

[noseinbook]

Did you throw him out or what?

[dustystarry]

I did

[dustystarry]

Thought i wanted us to find a way through this. Still not sure but fed up with being treated so badly!

[Knakard]

Nothing to add of use other than well done and big congrats on having ball of steel!

[noseinbook]

It is possible - have done it twice (once me, once him) - but now realise he is a cocklodger (love that word), and am finally ending it.

Must go to bed.

[dustystarry]

Well god knows one of us need to grow a pair lol. Still love him but thats not enough - I need someone who loves me too. If she really wants a man like him she can have him. I thought he was me soul mate but if one reallty exisits he's still out there and regardless it's definitely not him