Hi all
Guess I will prob get slated but wanted some opinions. My hubs and I have an ok sex life - nothing to set the world on fire but usually 2/3 times a week.
He works from home and I know that he watches porn most days. It really upsets me and I have asked him many times not too but he refuses to stop. I've given up asking now as it just causes too many arguments.
About 2 months ago a colleague of mine moved to China, and after he went we started flirting. This built up and now probably once a week we have a session of naughty texting where we talk about what we would like to do to each other. It turns me on loads and usually ends up with me grabbing hubs for a shag after. This chap will not be coming back for two years, and even if he did I would never ever cheat on my hubs. He feels the same. It's just a bit of fun.
My question is, is this really dreadful of me? I don't see it as any different to what hubs continues to do.
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Is this any different to watching porn?
QuestionTime · 04/11/2011 19:43
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