We don't really get on. She's not a horrible person (I wish because then I could just stop talking to her) but very destructive and passive aggresive. She's messed my childhood and consequently my adult me up big time and I have come to the realisation that she's simply toxic.
I can't get myself to show affection to anyone in front of her. I even cancelled my originally planned wedding and got married with just a few friends because I knew I wouldn't turn up if she was there.
Now I'm 6months pregnant and she has more or less invited herself from abroad to come and stay with me for 10 days. I'm signed off sick so have no chance to escape her. I don't want her to see me with a bump and I certainly can't deal with her touching it.
She will be here in 3 hours. I really really don't know how to get through the next 10 days. She has no boundaries.
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My mum's coming to visit in 3 hours, I just want to cry :(
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