hi there
ive only used mumsnet once, after looking for some ovulation kit advice! and i was so surprised at how helpful it was, i want to ask if anyone can help me with this "situation" i have.
im not sure if im posting this in the right section but here goes..
me and my husand have a two year old, and pretty much as soon as she was born i have this "thing " about sex.
i do enjoy sex and we have good sex (well i think so) but ever since she was born the thought of doing the things we used to do really repulses me.. i,e oral sex and anything a little spicey.
saying that i dont even feel like going on top, i just like misionary quick sex. i do enjoy it, but my poor husband is demented.. he keeps laying into me about how i "used" to be and how all i do now is kiss pull him on me and hurray job over.
i dont give him oral anymore the thought of doing anything like that makes me feel dirty or ashamed and i have NO idea why i feel like this.
whenever we try to talk about it, it ends in an argument and a seperate room night.
not sure how much longer i can go on feeling like this, my daughter is two now so i think the "ive just had a baby" excuse is wearing thin.
has anyone else experienced this? or know of anyone that has, and did they change in time? or is this just the way its going to be?
my husbands said some pretty nasty things to me when hes got a drink in him, how im boring now in bed and i dont show him that i fancy him anymore, yet he shows me all the time, i love him to bits and hes a great father and husband, i just cannot switch from mother, worker house wife.. to whore in the bedroom! its not dirty to give your husband a 'blow' but why do i think it is?
sorry if any of this sounds stupid, ive felt stupid for two years now, and i dont know how many more times i can cry about this and wonder what the heck is wrong with me!
thanks
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wish i knew what was wrong with me
amandagoodman · 21/10/2011 19:06
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