This is a huge decision for dh and I, we have gone so far done the road but I'm having doubts so here goes:
Option 1
Small detatched house
Nice, quiet area
15 miles from my permanent job (v hard to get/worked v hard)
No family close/family live 90 miles away
DH shift work
See DH every day
No real commute
Future child care will be expensive (32 now and would like dc)
Or
Option 2
Fabulous house in country (am totally seduced by the house)
Family close so could help with future child care
DH job not certain to last on ongoing basis (depends on euro)
Have to commute 180 miles per day or stay away during the week
Will miss dh dreadfully
Will only be in new house at weekends if stay over close to work during week
We are sale agreed on our house and I feel can't let the buyers down.
I am shaking and feel under pressure to make a decision.
What should I choose? Which options sounds the best? Any wise people out there?
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My head is in turmoil - can't make decisions - which should I choose?
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Pinkflipflop · 10/10/2011 20:33
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