i really need some advice, i have zero experience of dating i met my ex at 16 we split up 18months ago and i havent really been interested until recently.
on facebook i have just attracted stalkers and freaks, there was one lad who seemed interested but blew cold then messaged me tonight saying he was talking to someone before he got chatting to me and he felt it was wrong to talk to me bad timing ect ect. (i think he just felt bad for ignoring me tbh) but i think he is generally a nice lad.
so basically just not sure what to do, fb seems the easiest way to meet people but i have had to block 3 people due to them literally stalking me, tey knew what i was talking to other people about then bringing it up all jealous, there was one that was down right rude.
i dont understand why i'm attracting these type? the stalking type oh and the married men, they seem to enjoy inboxing me too, not interested in them... its so hard, my profile pic is of me and my small one so not provocative, they are all mutual friends of other people so i can dig a little if i need to.
really struggling though with it all and because im so new to it all im worried i'll scare any decent ones off, feel very lost in it all, my mates just keep saying be you be you and someone will come along but im 26 and i dont get many opportunities to meet people men particularly... anybody got any tips at all need all the help i can get :o
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