Hello
Basically I have always tried to be a "good daughter" my mum is on her own and has been for years. I invite her on family holidays, she always spends Christmas with us etc.
She has always been a bit mentally unstable and over relies on me for everything. Most days she will call down, even if I have already seen her. She will phone up to three times a day.
There is always a problem, an emergency, someone who has upset her and she wants me to sort it out.
Today I came in and the phone was ringing. This happens a lot think she just calls non-stop till I get in. Anyway she was telling me she was having an allergic reaction, her tongue was swelling, she thought she was going to faint. I rushed round and there was nothing at all wrong with her. Two nights ago she rang at three in the morning to say that she was having a bad nightmare and she thought it was a reaction to some more tablets she was taking.
She is constantly at the doctors three to four times a week with some new medical condition she thinks she has got. I really do think she has mental health problems.
I seriously don't know what to do with her. I have spoke to her about this but she serious thinks she is ill and has genuine problems.
I have two kids, I have a job, I have a life.
I am getting to the point now where I don't want to answer the phone, want to move further away from her.
Am I a complete bitch? Can anyone advise me of how to cope?
Thanks
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Honestly don't think I can cope with my mother anymore
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lovesmybed · 30/08/2011 16:17
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