I posted a few days back about the genogram used in my last session.
Talking mainly about marriage- go or stay.
I want to now ask about counselling and outcomes. I am feeling frustrated about the counsellor's lack of comment. She asks lots of questions , says things like I seem angry, disappointed, suffering loss etc as my marriage is not what I had hoped- but zilch else.
I know she will not take sides or be judgemental, but I also feel I am talking into thin air.
I am pretty clued up with my own behaviour, family background etc etc- have analysed it a lot over the years, and withut boasting, I'd say I am pretty self aware.
There is nothing I have told her that I have not told close friends, or acknowledged myself. No big revelations. No "Arrrrrh that's why it doesn't work" moments.
I come out feeling I have had a good old moan, talked about stuff, but that's it.
I suppose I need or want her to say "Yes you are justified in feeling that" or, "Yes you are right, that is not acceptable behaviour" etc etc. Nothing.
Is counselling for me?
I don't think I will find more answers like this......
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Counsellors or anyone who has had it- your experiences please.
counsellingtricks · 16/08/2011 21:47
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