I've been reading this forum over the past few weeks and many things on here could apply to DH as I see him at the moment. However despite the fact that he can be grumpy, disrespectful and mean and I often feel controlled, I also think some of this is just 'us' and the rut we are in. ie we are bringing out the worst in each other.
I feel things can get better, but how do I turn it around? For my part I am guilty of not loving DH and being fairly cold and uncaring. I believe if I am warm to him and start to see the good in him again it might start to help us be more positive.
Do you think I am being naiive? Any word of wisdom as to how to go about doing this?
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I want to love DH again
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MidLife · 28/07/2011 21:47
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