found out today that H has been cheating on me for a few weeks/months. We have had lots of problems in our relationship lately him having a high sex drive where ive been the oppisite, not being helpful around the house/diy/ looking after kids -one being SN etc.
The other night we thought maybe a break would be a good idea as weve been going in circles to sort things. He came home today to see the kids and I had a quick nose on his phone (I know its wrong but something was pushing me to) anyway found texts to and from a male work mate saying things like I really miss your smile, cuddles and kisses etc and I love you, your my rock etc.
When I confronted him I he initaly said its a work mate being funny but then admitted it. He meets this slapper in mornings before work for sex and has been for a while now.
I feel sick at the thought of it, I hate him so much but hes adamant he wants to sort things out between us and for the kids too.
I dont see how I could trust him and I cant stop thinking of 'them'.
Is there ever a chance of getting round something like this? Just dont know what to do.
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really didnt think he would but H has been cheating
imawigglyworm · 28/07/2011 21:08
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