My husband is working himself into the ground and I can't stop him. He puts in a minimum of 15 hours a day, plus around 15 hours travelling a week.
I know why he does it - he's terrified he's underachieving. He knows that's why he does it too, but he's almost proud that he can "manage". We had an argument last week because he proudly stated that all he'd had to eat all day was a piece of fruit, as he was working too hard to eat. He drinks every day (even if he hasn't eaten). He doesn't sleep - he either purposefully sets his alarm to get as little sleep as possible, or tosses and turns all night.
On top of this, he's signed up to do a marathon. So he runs an hour a day too.
During our little chat he admitted that he never switches off from work and has to force himself to to focus on spending time with me and the kids. He also admitted that he had these exact same arguments with his ex wife.
I'm not daft enough to think I can change him until something breaks (he doesn't think he'll break - he sees it as a challenge to prove me wrong). I just want to know if anyone has similar experiences or advice on how to cope?
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Married to a workaholic
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BlackShuck · 19/07/2011 07:53
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