Hi all, i'm new here... Honestly i dont have anyone to turn to. My friends don't really seem to show any interest now that i'm a mum (i have a 2year old) every time i try talking things through with my husband it escalates into an argument.. I don't know if what i think is reasonable or not.
It might be a long story, so i apologize in advance.
My husband and i have been married for 3 years, in that time he's cheated on me, proposed to another woman (whilst married to me) and hit me. Each time i forgave him (well, agreed to move on).
For the past year our marriage has gotten progressively worse. I feel unhappy most of the time, we barely do anything together, i keep trying to talk about my feelings and he doesn't care, he mumbles about how he cares and things will get better- they never do!
I actually dream about being happy, being with another man (dunno who the man is- just someone else) which makes my waking life so much more miserable.
Now my husband wants to move to London to work there. I am completely NOT a city girl, im a town person, i cant stand busy places, noisy places, and for me, its not where i want to bring up my son. I've told him this a million times. We need to find a place to live by the 14th August or we'll be homeless. I have found an excellently priced flat in the area we live in now and to be honest i have my heart set on it. My husband isn't interested- his heart is set on London.
I'm not even sure if i love him anymore, his stubbornness really winds me up, he keeps expecting me to sacrifice what i want and makes no compromises himself- he even wants me to agree to rent a 1 bed place in London instead of a 2 bed place!!
I keep thinking about leaving him, but would i be unreasonable to do that. I just feel that i've put up with so much shit over the years that im at my wits end...
It sounds sad but i really need someone to talk to :(
Thanks for readin,
Sophie x
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sophielouise21 · 10/07/2011 21:42
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