(Name change) I am mother of 4 DC aged between 6 and 13. My DH works long and hard, medical, often evenings and week ends. Most of the child rearing comes down to me. I have lots of interests and keep busy apart from looking after the DC and I do work when I can (freelancer). But I feel my DH and I are growing further and further apart, and rarely spend time just the two of us, or have joint interests. When he is at home, the DC demand their pound of flesh from him (understandably). I feel very much the last priority with him. Our sex life suffers from his exhaustion. I have been to Relate - I found it useful and some things have improved, but I beginning to think that coming up the priority list with my DH is nigh on impossible. Does anyone else find this, and if so, have they managed to fix it, or learn to live with it?
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mrsmollie · 10/07/2011 19:22
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