Oh man, I don't know where to begin... Please bear with me here if I don't give the full picture- there's so much of it, and I'm terrified of being identified in RL.
I've been separated from my stbxdh since November. He moved out of the house and in with his new girlfriend straight away. I've since got a new partner- we got together in December, having known each other for a year at that point, and things are going nicely. NP lives a long way from me, and due to circumstances, I fly to see him at regular intervals- every couple of weeks.
Stbxdh and I share residency of the children (I have them one week, him the next). This is a situation that's worked really well- we live close enough to each other so the children can go to school etc. Now, my DP was going to spend the week with me. Stbxdh hit the roof at this, saying he would not let the DC's come to me if he was here.
Unfortunately, DP has not been able to visit after all due to work commitments. Stbxdh knows this- I emailed and told him yesterday, along with stating my expectation to collect the DC's as normal, but there was no response. I'm terrified he won't release them to me. Literally, I'm sitting here shaking... is anyone around to to give me a virtual hand hold and tell me it'll be ok?
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GoddessofSubburbia · 04/07/2011 16:39
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