The kids always have something for after their tea. We call it "afters" which I'm sure is common in other families. Sometimes it's a bit of icecream, cake or yogurt but yesterday I remembered I had a huge bag of monster munchines that needed using up and the kids love them so I spoke to DP in the kitchen and said "the kids can have a packet of monster munchies each for afters. He said "crisps for after tea? no they can have yogurt" So I was like "err, I'm allowed a say in this remember!? they can have yogurt or crisps" so he said "They can have a yogurt".
So at this point one of the children finishes their tea and comes in the ask what's for afters. DP jumps in with "yogurt" so I add "or there's some monster munchies in the cupboard if you fancy a pack of them".
Well DP literally threw the tea-towel he was holding on the side and shouted "HOW FUCKING PATHETIC! YOU HAVE TO GO AGAINST ME ON EVERYTHING DON'T YOU? ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE YOUR OWN FUCKING WAY! DON'T YOU??" this was in front of DS who is 12 and who simply raised an eyebrow and muttered "woah chill out, it's only crisps!".
I told DS to take the crisps up to his room and I left the kitchen to get away from nut-job but he followed me and carried on screaming and shouting at me.
He later admitted he over-reacted but as usual, never apologised. I wasn't in the wrong to insist on having a say in what my own kids eat, right?
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