My DH has come up with alot of excuses in the past, some of which were hurtful but tonight has finally opened up & admitted he just doesn't enjoy having sex with me anymore. He is capable, we do it sometimes when I get upset about the lack of it "to a satisfactory conclusion" but he just doesn't enjoy it or want it. He never masturbates or thinks about sex. He used to be really into it. My self esteem has been knocked for six again. In many other ways he's a great husband & father but this continues to be a huge problem between us. I don't want the common LEAVE HIM NOW HE'S A BASTARD advice but wonder if anyone else has actually managed to overcome this in their relationship or are we doomed?
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