Dh talking to prostitutes on porn sites, don't know if I can do this anymore

[HerRoyalMadge]

i have posted about this before.

I found out a couple of months ago that dh had been on porn sites. He had paid for short sessions on the webcam where he can instruct the woman on the other end and she does what he asked. Not sure if I'm explaining it very well.

Apart from our initial argument it's not been discussed because I've been trying to get my head round it. I still don't know what to do. He is a brilliant father and a good husband in other ways. But I'm gutted by what he did. Do I end my marriage over it?

[GypsyMoth]

family money spent on that crap?
his time and energy
cheating on you

he's no good dad........i'd be off

dont care what the 'he might be depressed,he needs councelling,have you been to relate' gang say....for me,it would be dead!!

sorry,its not going anywhere

[HerRoyalMadge]

I agree with everything you say

[annieatnofour]

Madge,


i really feel for you - just going through this myself, although iam a few years down the line ( thread is Help and support needed, if you want a read).

H and i are now seperated as it was a problem that would no go away, and was damaging all areas of our relationship.

Let me know if i can offer any insight
take care
xxx

[HerRoyalMadge]

He hasnt been near the sites since I found out. He gets upset when I bring it up bit during these times he makes no effort to make it right.

[FabbyChic]

What can he do to make it right? it's done, you either have to be able to move on from it or walk away from the relationship.

If money was tight then it's a pisstake, if it isn't you cannot use that to beat him with.

[Beaaware]

Try this book:

WHY MEN WANT SEX & WOMEN NEED LOVE by Allan & Barbara Pease

it is quite interesting and explains why men are driven by their dicks.