i posted this in aibu and got no love, someone pmed me and said i might get more luck on here, any and all opinions greatly received as i am a bit confused by this.
been together 9 months give or take, he has met my kids, they get on really well. we have even been on holiday together to meet my family in ireland (his idea).
i was very strict about him not meeting the kids as didnt want anyone that wasn't serious in their lives, but when i knew it was it was fine, he is building a relationship with them and i want the same opportunity to do that with his kids, but he says he doesn't want to till his divorcee come through in case his ex becomes difficult about custody.
i can see his point and that is why i haven't said ant thing to him but i feel that the longer we leave and the closer he gets to my kids when we finally do all get together if ever wont it be odd for them that he has a relationship with mine and we dont know them at all?
i have met them as daddy's friend in the park, i just feel that he is in every part of my life and i am being left out of such a big part of his. so am i bu or totally over thinking it?
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cannydoit · 07/06/2011 14:47
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