I will have been separated from exh for 2yrs in july and previously been married to him and lived with him for 13yrs. We have 3dcs. I have been fed up with the situation for a very long time, but haven't said anything and today said to exh I'm fed up of living like this, as he's using the fact that we are still legally married to try and control me. I am still reliant on him financially somewhat till i can get a job, as we have a joint mortgage and i cant pay as dont have much money coming in. I have been trying to hang on in there for sake of dcs, so as not to distress them by having to leave their home which they are familiar with. I dont want to destabilise them.
But today I just couldnt take anymore and said 'i have had enough' i want him to lose the power and control he has over me.
I never said it like that exactly, but his reaction was that "fine, do what makes u happy. when do u want it today, 2moro???" i was really upset by this as i have tried so hard over the yrs to please him and to make it work
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Told exh want it to end......sad :( at his reaction. Did I not mean anything to him??? :(
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