Dear All, I am really starting to feel very isolated, alone and sad.
When I was about six months pregnant my husband stopped having sex w me. He said he didnt want to hurt the baby. I said it wouldnt and asked that we could still have sex, but he really went off it and started staying up late alone w the computer. Now our daughter is 7 months old and I have asked as nicely as I can if we can have sex again. Now he says he doesnt want me to get pregnant, I have suggested condoms ( dont want to go on the pill) but still no joy. I have no problem w him watching porn and would rather watch it with him. But I have now found out he is looking and writing to people on craigslist to meet up with, he is chatting to women online and wanking to live interctive video chat and asking women for their phone numbers for phone sex. He has also starting googling brothels in the area. Its making me so sad. I love him and want our relationship to work, I want to have sex and a healthy sex life. The last time I brought up him spending time online with other women was once about two years ago, he go really defensive, would not speak to me for a week or two, I worked really hard to get things going again and we have had a good relationship until this all started again.
I dont know how to even start...I am so exhausted at the end of the day I have to be in bed early and I allways ask if he wants to come to bed, but he allways stays up on his own to jerk off...
I am feeling very alone and its getting harder not easier to care for our daughter...
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Advice Please! - Husband has stopped sex and looks at porn and hookup sites
lilysmum69 · 03/06/2011 11:21
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