I realise this is a common thread but really I am not sure anymore.
Married for 6 years , two lovely DD and DS . I have posted previously about suspected gaslighting by DH.
Yet another episode of him continually having a rant at me over past few days
( happens regularly). This time I forgot to make an outstanding bill payment. Crap I know, but when he found out he went mental. I have paid it but he still will not let it go. He states I do not contribute to the house. I buy constant crap for the kids. He works all the long hours and I do nothing. I work part time and pay all bills food etc. He pays for the mortgage.
I just feel really hurt he thinks I do nothing. He does work 5 days a week but I have the children when I am not working. I run the household. Washing, food , meals. He maintains my general attitude is not good enough when it cones to money. He thinks buying our 5 yr old a DS is ridiculous. It was her birthday!
I feel it would be easier if I was on my own with children in a little house.
I hate the fact he thinks I do nothing! Aaaghhh!!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
How do u know if it's a 'bad patch' or the end?
2 replies
OneDove · 27/05/2011 00:08
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.