My mother and father (in their 60's) have just seperated and become divorced. I have just found out that my father has had 3 affairs, 1 lasting 27 years started when I was 2! This only ended as the woman died! and then another which has just begun in january leading my Mum to kick him out and say goodbye for good.
I am trying to work out if I can have a relationship with a father that is a different man to the man I thought he was. He has gone to live with another woman which I find very difficult.
The father I thought I had was very strict had very high morals of what was right and wrong and extremely hard in how he brought us up. The father I have just found out I have is one that has little morals has cheated on my mum through their entire relationship and has been very unkind verbally more recently.
Can I allow my young boys to be influenced by a man of little morals? I would appreciate any views on this.
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Can I have a relationship with my adulturous father
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tiger66 · 22/05/2011 13:26
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