Okay I posted this yesterday and have had no response but could really do with some advice
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1218601-How-do-you-avoid-the-same-patterns-after-separation
Last night I realised maybe this is passive aggressive behaviour.
I wish I'd realised this earlier because maybe we would have been able to save our relationship.
Things got increasingly bad and I started to challenge the inconsistencies.
We have been to counselling etc etc, the counsellor pointed out areas he needed to work on and afterwards he would just be rude about her.
He has now left but obviously I still have to negotiate with him re DCs.
But what is the best way to deal with this kind off behaviour?
I have said lets get all the finances and practical things sorted out before changing the DCs routine. He has now put me in the position of seeming unreasonable if I don't co-operate with him, but the other stuff still isnt sorted out.
Any and all advice appreciated.
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passive aggression?? please help me work out how to deal with xp
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SmallThingsMatter · 20/05/2011 09:50
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