H has put the final nail in the coffin.I know quite of few of you are wondering why I hadn't left him years ago.
Well yesterday was the final straw.For those who who haven't been following my threads.H and I are living seperately(have been for last 5 years).In that time we have tried at the relationship a few times(this has involved him popping around and seeing me and the kids) and split up again several times.
Well he brought up the fact of moving back in in the future.(not that I'm now considering it at this time).He then said something that implied we would still keep our accounts seperate.Now I know this suits some couples.But this is something he has always been against.He has even slagged off people who do this.When we were together we had joint accounts.At one time I was the breadwinner and he was at home looking after the kids.
But now that this role is reversed he now isn't sure he'd want to do this.Saying just in case we split again.He said its something he'd have to think about.I don't believe his reason.I think it shows how selfish and tight he's become.
I wouldn't want to live where I had to ask for money.To me thats not a relationship(especially with kids).
So I basically told him I'm not happy about this and ranted at him.I told him that its over.Although I don't think he believes it.
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womblingfree1970 · 10/05/2011 08:31
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