tell me ....

[cheeryface]

what do you expect from your man ? what do you get from your relationship?

He says he loves me but im not feeling it .

[cheeryface]

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[Kikithecat]

Well there are so many possible answers but I guess the things that my DH does that show he loves me are, e.g.:

Wanting us to spend time together
Having a laugh together
Him vocalising his appreciation of me (can't say I do this to him so well, but then he does have a fairly healthy ego!)
Being treated as an equal and a best friend as well as lover.

How does that sound?

[Diggs]

Its actions , not words Cheery . If your not feeling it its probably not there .

[Moodykat]

I agree - my DH makes time (mostly) to talk to me, if he can tell I've had a knackering day he will make an effort to help with tea and anything around the house I haven't managed, he spends time with us...just little things really that all add up to a loving relationship.

Yeah, we argue and of course sometimes I feel unloved and hard done by, but its mostly hormones! (Just don't tell my DH that!).