I don't know where to start - namechanged for this.
I am separated, basically been in an unhappy marriage for 10 years (married for 20) 2 DS (teenagers). Separated in February. Things are hard, I am in a tiny flat round the corner from the family home, he's being mega controlling but it doesn't affect me any more thank goodness.
There is another man, who is married. I have known him years but only acknowledged there was more in the last few months. He was not the reason for the breakup. He came to stay with me last week to see if it worked...and it did. So very well. His wife knew and gave her blessing - hoping it wouldn't work. Anyway now he is back (another country) and she is asking that he tells no one. Basically I think she hopes it will fizzle out if she waits. They have no DCs.
I feel shitty. I don't want to split them up but he says he is leaving anyway. I don't want to be a doormat. I want him so desperately..... He says he loves me and that he will be with me in June for good, but to be honest I am getting more and more skeptical.
Please don't flame me I have been sobbing for a week. I shouldn't even post this I suppose....
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WhatonearthamItodonow · 24/04/2011 15:20
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