Hi. I'm new here but I'd just like a bit of advice really. I was seeing someone about a year ago. It was a short relationship (a few months), but I was in love with him. We had had a couple of minor tiffs, but everything else was good and quite intense. Anyway, one day out of the blue he dumped me by text.
He also did it very callously with the words he used. When I tried to call and reply he simply went silent. I backed off for a while to see if he'd get in touch with me again. In fact, it was a few months before I tried again. I sent him a text and email, but again no response.
That was it really, and I know it's over between us given the time that has passed and the rather heartless way he ended things. My problem is, I just can't seem to stop thinking of him. To the point where he's on my mind every day, even after a year!
I have seen a counsellor and tried self hypnosis, have tried to keep busy and even dated other men, but he is still there in my thoughts. I still love him if I'm honest. The intensity of my obsession with him has lessened as time has gone on, and I have never done anything weird such as stalk him or anything. I would just like to know if anyone else has ever felt like this? I wonder if it's because I never got closure because I don't know to this day why he dumped me? As I say, I did try to make contact but all attempts were rebuffed.
Sorry if this is a bit long and waffly.
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boltonrose · 13/04/2011 12:11
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