I feel such fool. , I was being so calm with my ex who has left me after the death of our son and 25years together
I was making sure every time he came round I looked good, I didn?t hassle him, we went out for 2/3 meals and on mothersday he cooked and bought me a lovely present. Each time he confirmed it was over but we would walk the dog holding hands. Evertime he left I was in pieces but was thinking he is spending more time here than with her he had even commented she was pressuring hi,
He had refused to tell me who she was and it has become an obsession.
This week it dawned on me it was a particular women he worked with (for lots of reasons) so I looked her up and facebook and still don?t know why did a friends request.
She also has a 2nd business with her address and mobile no, so I drove round and put a note through her door and phoned to hear her voice (german) to be sure and it was. She has told EP and he has gone mad, says I?m a mad stalker, need treatment stay out of his live and we will never be friends
I am so gutted I have been so stupid but I did really need to know who it was , is there any way to redeem this
xxxxx
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partnerleft · 08/04/2011 18:39
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