There is so much back story it would fill a hundred pages so I will keep it short and just ask about this particular thing if I can.
DH seems to feel the need to comment on things I do or say in a questioning/negative manner. He has always done it, been together 8 years. Its just starting to get really annoying.
Here are some examples:
Picking a takeaway to eat and he says "Are you sure you want that" I say "Yes thats why Ive picked it." He then goes on for 5 minutes asking "Are you sure you want that, will you eat more of the other type of takeway" He insists he has no favourite choice so why wont he just accept my choice?
Shopping yesterday and he says "Look underwear on offer there, you said you needed some" I then pick some underwear and he looks frowny and says "So youre not wearing thongs anymore" Evidently not.
Choosing to drink coffee more in the day instead of tea, he says "I think its a sad day when youve decided to be a coffee drinker" He was deadly serious and disapproving.
These sound daft I realise that but when it seems almost everything you do is questioned it gets a bit tiresome. My friend says this is controlling behaviour but I dont know. Any opinions please?
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Is this "normal" its really annoying me!
handsoffmycake · 05/03/2011 08:19
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