Have had a friend for about the last 7 years - met through having children at the same time.
Over the last 18 months or so friend has kind of 'dropped' me for another friend - I'm not entirely sure that she's done it intentionally (she has MH problems and these make her quite self absorbed iyswim). She excludes me from meeting up - ie used to go take the dc's to after school activities etc and she'd go off with the other mum for a coffee and not think to ask me etc.
Recently she's cancelled a few meet ups and I thought I'd be able to just let the friendship go - she also forgot my birthday and has just sent me a text to says how sorry she is and can we go out for dinner.
I'm a terrible liar and incredibly hurt that she's dropped me as a friend and am not the person to just go out for dinner with someone without saying something - I feel that I need to say that I am upset with how she's treated me over the last 18 months(unintentionally or not)
WWYD? Would you say something or would it be a bit playground?
Situation is slightly difficult as our dc's are best friends so not easy to have a clean break iyswim.
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Would you tell a friend that they'd upset you?
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DayVLately · 04/03/2011 12:42
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