Hi back in August of last year my MIL was kicking off and screaming at my DP because my DP had always said no unsupervised contact with the DC she always had times when she would do this so I took my DS upstaires and came back and told her to please leave my house. She gave me a mouthful of abuse, death wishes and so on. So I repeated for her to leave the house or I would call the police. She turned and left I walked after her to make sure the door was shut because we live on a busy road and I didnt want it open in case the DC ran out.
When I got there DS ran down staires and my MIL turned and attempted to strangle me I was left with red marks and slight bruising. I pushed her off and she bit my hand, my DS was screaming and I hit her to stop her biting my hand. DP had run in by this point and when she launched at me got in the middle to stop her harming me she scramed him and bit him and hit him he pushed her out and shut the door but he did not harm her at all.
I reported but so did she both saying the other hit first. We both had minor injuries so police would take it no further. DS for a few months was very frightened and didnt want to see her. But lately he has been asking why she has not said sorry and why she did this. Now I dont want to make her sound evil because she is my DS GP and he loves her even though he is scared of her, she will not be allowed to see us again but how do I explain all this to my DS in the best way? DP is 100% supportive of this decision BTW and since she left has spoke of some truly horrific things she did to him as a child and exactly why unsupervised access was always banned.
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Crawling · 03/03/2011 13:20
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