I've namechanged because I feel a bit guilty.
I don't think I like my mum very much. She is totally self absorbed.
She thinks everyone is bullying her, and against her if they don't admire her and praise her.
She doesn't come to visit when DS (4) is up as she "can't talk with him around", can't hear herself think.
When she says talk, that's exactly what she means, her "blah balh me me me blah" while I nod along.
She moved us around constantly as kids, wherever her man at hte time wanted to be. left me with her friends horrible old husband who made me rub my hands over his bits. (I was 10)
I have a brother a yr younger than me who she does everything for- wouldn't move him in his GCSE year (having moved me in mine) paid for his driving lessons and insurance despite him being 25 with a full time job, just generally fawns over him. Then I have to listen to how unappreciated she is when he doesn't kiss her feet.
I got a job recently, having been looking for quite a long time. She decides they'll come over to 'celebrate'
The whole eving she read the paper, talked about herself, about how hard everything is for her and updated her fb status, while I made them endless cups of tea.
Don't get me wrong, I didn't want the whole conversation to revolve around me but a celebration it wasn't.
I know this sounds like a load of rambling but it's building up into huge resentment and I feel like I don't want to see her anymore.
Does anyone else dislike their mum or dad?
Waht do I do?
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Does anyone not really like their parents?
notamummysgirl · 27/02/2011 16:07
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