My ex-partner,father of my 5 week old baby moved out when I was 8 months pregnant,I have posted on here before. He rings me every day sometimes several times to give me a run down of the latest thing on his mind,it's usually about one of his cars,how much they are costing to be fixed etc. He jabbers on for 5 minutes non stop I don't get a word in,then he promptly says 'anyway must go'and off he goes...I also get regular texts some relevant to our son but most not,I reply to the one's asking how our son is and usually ignore the others.I am sick of these phone calls and the constant contact so today I have not bothered answering the phone at all so now he's ringing and texting and the last text I had said 'stop taking the piss'. How am I taking the piss? He's the one who left I shouldn't have to listen to his crap anymore,all he ever talks about is himself and he makes no effort to have us in his life otherwise.I don't want to fall out with him but I don't want to be controlled by him anymore either,how do I deal with these small but consuming demands? He is a bossy,control freak and, I suspect, narcissist who has lied,cheated,been violent and then pleading in the past which stopped when I became pregnant then I must have no longer held any sort of appeal for him as like I said he walked away in late pregnancy. He has done so wrong yet still feels ok to come and go and expects me to be on the end of the flaming phone at any time! grrrr
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