I have a problem. LOL . I need to know whether I am going mad or if it is him.
OH has a habit of phoning numbers on my mobile bill to see who they are, he hates me talking to friends on the phone, he thinks they should only phone him up to ask if we would like to go out for an evening. He hates me meeting friends, seeing my family twice a month, you are probably getting the picture. He hasn't gone for me physically since I threatened to phone the police. He trashes the furniture, threatens me with splitting up every few days( we have been together 20 years, lol) etc
He has recently discovered facebook, contantly "stalking" me on there. So I blocked him, not the most sensible thing but I just can't deal with him questioning me about all my friends on there. I overheard him talking to friend of his saying how I doesn't want to know him on FB, and how strange it is that we are not linked. They both agreed I was mad.
Am I ? or is it how I feel it it which is self preservation. He is making feel its all in my mind, though the previous bruises aren't, lol.
I hope this makes some sense, any sense at all?
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amiinsane · 20/02/2011 20:47
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