hi,have namechanged for this
heres a little background,ive been in a relationship for 3yrs to a man that basically subjected me to domestic violence,emotional abuse,cheated on me i think you get the picture,anyway we have broken up a few times but this time is the longest 7wks,i finished it as i really couldnt go on and was very unhappy
anyway he has stalked ,pestered ,caused huge seans in public etc but ive stayed strong and finally felt so much better
i have 3 children of my own (none his)and my own home so atleast i was lucky not to be tied to him like some
anyway the last week he hasnt bothered me at all and ive really struggled with my feelings this week,i felt so down last night i texted him and basically he was very cold and didnt seem to want to know,im so cross with myself as i know i dont really want him so why do i feel like this
are there stages you go through (like a berevment)i feel so angry now for lots of reasons and i suppose i need to know this is natural,oh and hes a compilsive liar that plays mind games
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thekidsrule · 19/02/2011 19:20
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