i feel like i have to defend myself constantly -from exP and now from GP who trying to persuade me to attend parenting togther sessions.
i just dont feel this
www.tccr.org.uk/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=229:my-ex-partner-and-i-cant-agree-about-contact-what-should-i-do&catid=38:divorce-a-separation-unit&Itemid=81
covers the situation -
controlling exP
agressive exP
significant MH issues including agression (or maybe is not MH at all is just him - but GP thinks agression is part of his cyclical depression)
i tried two v unsucessful mediation sessions in 2010 which left me reeling - he was able to be agressive and bullying til mediator intervened - he now says i refused to attend more than 2 sessions and he is the good guy wanting to share parenting and mediate
contact issues go way beyond "disagreement" -currently no contact as he was violent towards DD...Ss involved.
what i have said is i will attend family group conference organized by SS. which his GP could attend to explain the MH or not issues as well as SW. to explain the conerns for DC in his care.
not confidential "counselling" service with him
there is research out there fom womens aid etc that mediation/counselling is not appropriate for abusive relationships...so why does GP (on his instigation) try to push me to attend this?
www.tccr.org.uk/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=61&Itemid=113
why should i even be pushed into going along to assessment session jsut to get across my views when gp fully aware of the background?
aargghggh.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
pls give me all reasons why parenting together service wont work with abusive/agressive exP
14 replies
cestlavielife · 09/02/2011 11:19
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.