I have a 3 month old DS and my DH has been emotionally abusive since I fell pregnant but now it is becoming physical too.
I love him so much but he is so different from the man that I married and I am worried what he is going to do next.
I don't want to break up our little family.
Have only been with DH 2 years and I feel like such a fool but when he punches me when I am holding our son surely things have to change?
I posted a thread on here about 10 days ago. Since then it was like he had flicked a switch and changed completely and I was so happy, I thought we could get through it together and it would be ok. We spent time together and went to his parents last weekend where we had a lovely time. He has also been very attentive and caring.
But today we had a row over what I had cooked and it was so silly but it escalated and got worse and worse and he ended up punching me in the face while I was holding DS in my arms.
I rang my friend in tears she has told me to leave but I just don't know where to go, what to do.
Part of me still hopes that when I tell him I am leaving he will wake up and realise he has to change and get help.
Do you think we can get through this if he admits what he is doing is wrong and goes to counselling or anger management?
Or do I get out now?
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