Don't know where to start really this is a bit complicated. Going through a terrible time with my DP but I really think this is the end. We have been rowing for weeks but this weekend 2 things happened that have left me angry, upset, enraged and so desperately sad. Firstly I overheard my DP asking our DS1 ( who is 19) to get him some cannabis, I know I was not meant to hear this but I did, I went completely mad, he said it was not for him and when I asked who is was for he said it was none of my business and I was a being a complete control freak ( his favourite insult right now) He just could not see that this is not giving a responsible parenting message to our son who smokes too much and just WRONG WRONG WRONG on so many levels. Secondly he came home from work on Saturday lunch time stinking of booze, when I asked if he had been drinking he completed denied it ( he must think I am stupid). Anyway to cut a long story he managed to get completely pissed and was staggering around incoherently, the worst of all was this was in front of our 10 year old .God it was humiliating, he was also very nasty to us both, poor kid. He then wakes on yesterday and carries on as if nothing has happened. Anyway things came to a head last night, another blazing row. this time though he told me he was suicidal ( which he denied 10 minutes later) but worst of all he hates being a father and does not love our son. . We have been together for 17 years and 11 years ago I told he that if he did not want a child with me then should split up as the old biological clock was ticking he agreed our DS was born, but he is still blaming me saying I have ruined his life by making him a father, god this is pathetic. sorry I rambling but I just need some ideas how to deal with this. Just not thinking straight. I actually think he is losing the plot
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