I will try and keep this short. I would really appreciate advice on how we can try to stay together after this massive betrayal of trust towards me and our dc. And advice on how dh can get help.
We live in the sticks, dh works in london, creative industry, long commute and sometimes long hours. We have two dc 3 and 1.
He admitted two nights ago that he has run up £25k of debt over the last year on basically taking coke and drinking after work. Never at the weekend with the family, and he says no affair etc.
Needless to say we are now up shit creek finacially, but to be honest at this point my main concern is whether there is any way forward for us to stay together as a couple / family.
Dh is currently remorseful, has a gp appt booked, and i have asked him to look into NA. We have sat down re finances, he is calling credit companies today to discuss repayment. He has given me passwords etc to all accounts.
I have lurked a long time on relationships and like others before me can't believe i am now the one asking for help. I think i knew something was amiss but genuinely didn't suspect this.
Any advice greatfully recieved. Please be kind ( but truthful)
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Arkala · 14/01/2011 19:32
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