Im a sahm and a member of dd's schools PTFA.
Im the secretary and on the team are quite a few parents from dd's class. We are all a year into ptfa members and are all quite freindly having known each other since the dk's were born (we live nextdoor/on same estate).
Now after the ptfa meetings a few of us go to the local pub for drinks.
Usally stay till last orders.
I go, mainly so im not walking home alone and also for a bit of a social life. Dh works, away at time and do socialise when working and home iykiwm.
Sometimes for drinks it can be me the only woman and 2/3/4 men or sometimes 2/3 of us are women.
Last night it was just me with 3 men. Nothing in it iykwim, just drinks and general chat. I got home around midnight to an angry dh.
Im happy im not doing anything wrong BUT socialising. Dh says he trusts me YET feels im being disrespectful to him and that I will also make an name for myself.. mostly with the wives of the men who go for dirnks.. (just to add that one of them im good friends with and I do socialise with her as well..BUT not at these meetings)
hope that makes sense..
Im just a bit sad that dh thinks im being disrespectful and that I will make an name for myself..
Surely as a sahm and a ptfa member I am entitled to time out..? The men that go know dh & I and they ask me.. Its 2011 not 1911...
Im a regular btw x
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Am I being disrespectful..?
mum31 · 13/01/2011 13:32
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