I have 2 dc, a 1yr old and a 3yr old.
Currently they live with the ex DW (separated not divorced).
From reading the internet and off hand conversations with legal people I understand that the law will grant me, at best, every other weekend and potentially a day during the week (I have agreed with my employer to do a 4 day week and have done this since the first DC, except for approximately 6m).
I currently get then a day a week and every other weekend.
However, reading various threads here, there is a suggestion that it is possible to get 50/50 or at least increased access.
For example, I know of two work friends who get their children doing the week and the other parent gets them on the weekend.
What are the current guidelines for children and how can I, if its in the best interests of the DC, which I believe it is, get more access?
In terms of proximity I live approximately 10 miles away from the DC but am happy to move closer if that is going to lead me to have more time with them. My long term plan is to buy a house close to where I expect them to be going to school.
thanks for any help
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